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Having worked in the corporate world for over 15 years,
one of my passions lies in being able to help people manage stress in
their lives. Having survived the pressures of the corporate world I understand how
difficult it can be to achieve a balanced lifestyle with; working
late, working weekends, a second job or part time study and then trying to fit in time with family, friends... let alone any
relaxation time for yourself!
When you suffer from stress, you experience a variety of
symptoms. These symptoms each fall into four categories:
- Behavioural (the things you do)
- Physical (your body's response)
- Emotional (what you feel)
- Psychological (your personal way of thinking.)
Take a look below at the various lists of stresses and
symptoms and then compare those with how you are feeling at this
moment. For each one that is relevant to you, give yourself a
point. Next, look for your score at the end of this self-test and you
will discover your personal stress rating.
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Physical symptoms
- Tightness in chest
- Chest pain and/or palpitations
- Indigestion
- Breathlessness
- Nausea
- Muscle twitches
- Aches and pains
- Headaches
- Skin conditions
- Recurrence of previous
illnesses/allergies
- Constipation/diarrhoea
- Weight loss or weight gain
- Change in menstrual cycle for
women
- Sleep problems/tiredness
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Emotional symptoms
- Mood swings
- Feeling anxious
- Feeling tense
- Feelings of anger
- Feeling guilty
- Feelings of shame
- Having no enthusiasm
- Becoming more cynical
- Feeling out of control
- Feeling helpless
- Decrease in confidence/self-esteem
- Poor concentration
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Behavioural symptoms
- Drop in work performance
- More inclined to become
accident-prone
- Drinking and smoking more
- Overeating/loss of appetite
- Change in sleeping patterns
- Poor time management
- Too busy to relax
- Withdrawing from family and
friends
- Loss of interest in sex
- Poor judgment
- Inability to express feelings
- Over-reacting
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Psychological symptoms and
negative thoughts
- 'I am a failure'
- 'I should be able to cope'
- ‘Why is everyone getting
at me?'
- 'No one understands'
- 'I don't know what to do'
- 'I can't cope'
- 'What's the point?'
- 'I don't seem to be able to get
on top of things'
- 'I keep forgetting where I put
things'
- Loss of judgment
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Add up your score to check how stressed you are.
0 – 4 symptoms: You are unlikely to
be stressed.
5 – 8 symptoms: You are experiencing
a mild form of stress and are not coping as well as you can. You need
to make some changes.
9 – 12 symptoms: You are
experiencing a moderate degree of stress. You need to make major
changes to your life.
13 or more symptoms: You need to take
urgent action to reduce your stress levels.
The higher your score the
more urgent is the need for action.
Stress is impossible to eliminate totally from life. However, if we
recognise what stresses us, together with how our symptoms show
themselves, we can take action to minimize or reduce any negative
effects. (Source www.solveyourproblem.com/stress-relief-guide)
The basis of Kinesiology is de-stressing your body
relative to the problems you’re experiencing. After each session you
will gain different perspectives on your situation and feel a greater
sense of calm and peace.
This is one of the most powerful techniques in
Kinesiology. It enables you to cope with stress, feeling overwhelmed,
pressure from work or a relationship, a trauma or an accident.
Follow these simple steps:
- Lie or sit down in a quiet place where you will be
undisturbed for a little while.
- Place the palm of your hand across your forehead.
- With your eyes closed, think about the situation that
is causing you stress. Imagine it is happening to you now, how are you
feeling, what can you smell, hear, sense?
- Continue to hold your hand in this position until you
feel the stress releasing, until you can think about the situation
easily.
Holding your hand across your forehead stimulates and
brings blood flow to the frontal part of your brain. This area is the
logical, reasoning mind. Creativity, choice, new options and rational
thinking occur here. When we find ourselves in situations that cause us
to panic or stress, the blood flows to the ‘fight or
flight’ part of the brain, which is just above the nape of your
neck.
You can use this technique of holding your forehead at
any time, before a high-pressure meeting at work, exams, a presentation
or whenever you experience a mental block and need an extra boost of
oxygenated blood to help!
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